Today I want to blog something special what I have been going through for the past weeks, and what I recently share with my friend when he met his own personal problem. And I hope you guys are ok that I never blog picture but words, because computer got virus :) sorry for the inconvenience.

Before I go on blogging, I have a question for you guys:
"Do you prefer to have the first say or last say?"

For me, I have come to that stage that I prefer to have the first say than the last say. So what you have the last say, end up you win and lose your friends, family members and colleague. Isn't it is more good to have the first say, then let the rest of the say for you to learn something out of it. Everyone want to speak, is not wrong, but sometime what the Bible or the outside world saying is true, 'be quick to listen and slow to speak'. I don't say that last say is no good, unless the person can take in what you got to say and learn, if he/she is so stubborn, then I think no point you throw a pearl at a pig, because end up the pig will trample at your pearl and not appreciate it.

Hope this message help you guys, spend time to think what I say:)